Things are not working out for you lately? People are ditching you for others? Your hard work is not giving you the desired results? Considering yourself a failure? Or just feeling low in general?
Let me tell you that your feeling low is okay. You don’t have to fake a smile if it doesn’t come from within. We all have bad and good days in our life. It will all be fine soon. You’re NOT a failure. Just hang in there!!
Considering Yourself as a Failure?
You’re not getting your desired results? Do you think you are a failure? That your life sucks?
Just because things are not going as you expected them to go, doesn’t mean that your life sucks.
Be grateful that you have a life in the first place!!
We all have been in a bad place at some point in our lives, but that doesn’t mean we should give up too soon!!
You have to be brave enough to accept your failures as a part of you.
DON’T LET YOUR FAILURES DEFINE YOU OR BRAKE YOU, LET THEM MAKE YOU INTO A BETTER VERSION OF YOURSELF.
These Failures are Important.
If you are failing at something then you are on the right path. Failing means that you are trying. That you are not just sitting and waiting for things to happen, but you are making things happen even if you don’t get it right on the first try.
Well, who got it right in the first place? The answer is nobody. Not even your role models. They too tried probably 100 different methods to reach the same goal and failed 100 times before they got their 101st trial right.
Feel Proud of Your Failures, don’t Hide them
Do you have any scars on your body, that constantly reminds you of all the pain and misery that you went through? and now you’ll obviously avoid repeating that same mistake again, right?
These failures also work the same way. If you have them, you’ll know what didn’t work out for you before and you’ll try to enhance it and try not to repeat the same mistake twice. Those imaginary scars are your manual that’ll guide you with what you should avoid and how you should change to make yourself a better version every day.
SO, EMBRACE THOSE FAILURES.
Self-Reminder to Stay Motivated
This part is tough. Being dejected by our failures and not giving our goals a second try is easy. But what’s tough is to get back up again and start from scratch.
We think why should we start from scratch after all the hard work that we put before? But what we usually forget is WE ARE NOT STARTING FROM SCRATCH; WE ARE STARTING WITH EXPERIENCE.
The next time when you fail at something just remind yourself to get back up again because now you are one step ahead than before as you know what didn’t work out for you.
Also, if you want to ask some life-related questions, you can chat with me by clicking on that side chat box and let’s bond over some positive vibes!!
Until then, live positively and happily!