What’s the Time?

What do we really mean when we say that maybe our ‘time wasn’t right’? Maybe it was a ‘wrong time’!! Have you ever said or heard about this when people say, ‘Oh! It’s just a wrong timing’! So, can we leave everything on timing and develop a laidback attitude towards life?

Well, according to me the answer is yes and no. It’s a situational question.

Maybe it wasn’t our time…

Right Time

We can do our share of hard work, put in our 100% efforts and still things might not work out for us. And hence, we blame everything on timing. Well, it’s kinda right though!! Not everything works out for the first time, you need to give it at least a fair second try if you REALLY want things to work out in your favor.

So, the next time when you hear or say that ‘your timing wasn’t right’ you need to remind yourselves that you need to put in more effort to give it a fair try again.

Can we actually blame our timing?

Right Timing

Well according to this great engineer, food technologist and a motivational human being AKA me AKA Gratisoul (Yes, I believe in self-praise too, because #SelfLove), timing plays an important role.

If you have tried several times to make things right and still it’s not going as you thought it should be going, now comes the role of ACCEPTANCE.

Often, we just keep on hitting the hay, keep on trying, making continuous failed efforts, still motivating ourselves to try again, and things just don’t work out. You’ll have to accept that it’s not ‘your time’ now.

But who knows when that ‘right time’ will come?


Unfortunately, no one knows that, and the only thing that we can control is our reaction and how much effort we need to put in more. But once, you get a signal that despite your efforts, things are not working out for you, you just need to accept that and wait patiently to try again later. No matter how much time it takes, all you can do is WAIT FOR THAT RIGHT TIME and keep trying from time to time.

Waiting for that ‘right time’ is just like waiting for a lottery, who knows who’ll get it, still, everybody hopes they will. So, just hold on to that hope!!

Don’t lose hope, don’t stop trying, don’t wait for the ‘right time’, JUST KEEP ON GOING AND YOU’LL EVENTUALLY FIND YOUR WAY.

Apart from that, I uploaded a new video on my YouTube channel!! Are you following me there Gratisouls?

Follow the link to watch this video and comment there if you are living in the moment or not?

Youtube channel-   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZFGdB2F6v5k

Also, if you want to ask some life-related questions, you can chat with me by clicking on that side chat box and let’s bond over some positive vibes!!

Until then, live positively and happily!



Hey people! I am Karishma Verma but most people just call me Kaddie. I graduated in mid 2018. I am an engineer by profession and an upbeat human, who likes to motivate and spread positive vibes around myself amongst my people! I am a Gratisoul and would love to proliferate these upbeat vibes to folks across every possible age bracket. So, let’s begin this journey of becoming ‘Gratisoul’ together!!


November 17, 2019 at 7:58 PM

You have some great advice. Timing is important, but preparation and effort count a great deal as well. I’ve watched many people wait for the right time for a promotion without preparing, and the opportunity just slipped by. I’ve also seen people prepare and wait for the right time to reach their goal.

    November 18, 2019 at 1:55 PM

    Yes, it’s a mixture of finding a perfect balance between waiting for the right time and putting in efforts. We just have to find a balance.
    Thank you for sharing your insights on the same!!

November 18, 2019 at 4:12 AM

I do believe everything happens for a reason and that timing is a big part in that!! It’s the wait thats the frustrating bit!! Good views on it hun 🙂 xx

    November 18, 2019 at 1:53 PM

    Yes, waiting for that perfect time can get frustrating, but we can’t just sit there and wait. We have to give it a try from time to time because we don’t know when that right timing will come!!

November 18, 2019 at 5:46 AM

I’m someone who believes that timing is everything. HAHAHAHA. There’s a perfect chance where things just mix.

November 18, 2019 at 6:54 AM

This was an interesting take on second chances and timing for relationships
I have noticed this especially in friendships tll

November 18, 2019 at 2:00 PM

Like that you mentioned effort as a lot of times I have found people who didn’t put in much effort have said it wasn’t there time. It’s worth trying to actually make it “your time”! This is a very well written article.

    November 19, 2019 at 1:22 PM

    Yes, exactly! I believe that efforts and timing both play an important role in determining our destiny!!
    Thank you for sharing your insights on the same!!

November 19, 2019 at 2:41 AM

Thanks for the encouragment.. Beautiful post..

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